Tuesday, December 18, 2012

NDA's PM candidate should be from BJP: Nitish Kumar

Patna, Dec 17 (IANS) Bihar Chief Minister Nitish Kumar Monday said only a Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) leader will be the National Democratic Alliance's (NDA) prime ministerial candidate for the 2014 Lok Sabha elections.
"A BJP leader will be the NDA's prime ministerial candidate," Nitish Kumar said here.
A day after the BJP ruled out the possibility of Nitish Kumar becoming the NDA's prime ministerial candidate, he said he was never a contender for the post.
Nitish Kumar refused to comment on Gujarat Chief Minister Narendra Modi as the party's prime ministerial candidate.
Earlier, he and his party, the Janata Dal-United, had expressed strong reservations about Modi as the BJP's prime ministerial candidate.
Nitish Kumar had said earlier that it would not take a minute for his party to break ties with the BJP if the latter projected Modi as its prime ministerial candidate.
He had also objected to his photographs with Modi in newspaper advertisements during the BJP national executive meeting in Patna in June 2010.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

7 body language secrets to attract women

It is said, ‘Attraction isn’t a choice’. You can’t force somebody to like you or get attracted to you (unless of course, you are in the possession of some Amortentia i.e. the love potion). But just like fortune, Cupid also favours the brave; so one needs to be ready when the right one comes along. 
The first step of attraction may be physical (looks, voice), but the key factor is surely communication. And only 10% of what we communicate happens through words; the rest is all body language. Getting the body language right goes a long way in making people like you. Here we reveal a few secrets on how to master this language and attract women.

1. Move your body:
Movements are important. Hurried, fidgety gestures and movements spell low-confidence. Moving too fast may make her feel intimidated. Controlled movements are signs of a confident men. This also gives the other person a sense of comfort.

2. Walk like a man
It is ‘key’ to have a good posture when you are walking. Walking with your head down or your hands in your pockets makes you look 'closed' and less approachable. Walk with your head held high and open up your shoulders.

3. Shine in your seat
When you meet and talk to people, you spend most of your time sitting. It is very important to give a relaxed impression. Lean back and make yourself comfortable. Don’t fold your hands, it signals that you’re shielding yourself and makes you look closed off.

4. Open up
When you are talking to a woman, you must not close your body. Palms should be open and Arms should be by your side. You should not cross your legs when you are in a sitting position. Crossing your legs or arms is also a signal of being ‘closed off.’

5. Its all in the eyes
Make and maintain eye-contact. Women look for confidence and sincerity in a man and there is no one better to tell them about it than your eyes. Also keep your eyes from wandering off to ‘you-know-where’ when you are talking to her. Eye contact and glances can also be used to invite or express interest.

6. Smile please

A smile is very powerful when used effectively. It is one of the first things people note about you when they see you. A good smile shows your confidence and enthusiasm.

7. Intimate not uncomfortable
If you think there is chemistry between you and her, its okay to be a little bold sometimes. Holding hands when talking or walking is good way to start. But don’t move too fast and make her uncomfortable. Give her the space she needs and look for the invitation signals.